Child Behavior
Sep 02, 2026
Understanding and Managing Toddler Tantrums
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
Child Psychologist and Behavioral Specialist.
Why Do Tantrums Happen?
Tantrums usually happen because a child is frustrated, tired, hungry, or trying to assert independence. Because toddlers don't have the vocabulary to express their big feelings, they act out instead.
How to Manage Tantrums
- Stay Calm: Your calm presence will help your child regulate their emotions.
- Acknowledge Feelings: Let your child know you understand they are upset. "I see you are angry because we have to leave the park."
- Use Time-Ins, Not Time-Outs: Sit with your child and offer comfort instead of isolating them.
Remember, consistency is key. By responding calmly and empathetically, you help your child build emotional regulation skills over time.